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Ngoko ke, ukuba usebenzisa? bemangalisiwe ukuba kutheni kuchitha kubalulekile kwi budlelwane, siyayazi impenduloBudlelwane nabanye kuqhubeka phakathi abantu ababini kwaye ingaba idlalwe ngaphandle ngomhla yabo eqhelekileyo emhlabeni. Eli tyala emhlabeni ngu kuchitha, kwaye kuyinto foundational umaleko kuba wanikela budlelwane nabanye. Kuchitha ngu commonly ndaqonda njengoko zinika phezulu into ukuze zifikelele indawo ukuqonda kunye umlingane wakho. Ngexesha abanye incopho yakho kubudlelwane wena umlingane wakho uza kuba ezahlukeneyo indlela, uluvo lwakhe okanye unqwenela. Ukuzothi ga, omnye kufuneka concede, okanye ngcono enye kukuba kuchitha. Kuchitha ufumana i - 'intermediate urhulumente phakathi conflicting izinto ezizezinye ufikelele yi-mutual concession'. I-imbono kukuba kuchitha ngu mutually beneficial - ukuba ufuna inzuzo, ukwahlula hluleka, ngokusebenzisa concession. Ngamnye iqabane lakho kufuneka ndonwabe kunye sikazwelonke. Nangona kunjalo, kubalulekile kananjalo achazwa"kuyimfuneko lwemimiselo nemigangatho ezingekho ngaphantsi kwe-ngu enqwenelekayo". Lento phantsi icala kuchitha. Ukuba ngempumelelo kuchitha kwi-budlelwane nabanye, kufuneka baqonde disparity phakathi idini vs kuchitha. Kuchitha kufuneka zange ibe idini ka-ezingundoqo amaxabiso, beliefs okanye iimfuno. Oko kukuthi xa umlinganiselo sele tipped kakhulu ukuza kuthi ga ngoku kwi-ezingachanekanga icala. Omabini la iinkcazelo phawula contradictory uhlobo kuchitha. Kunokwenzeka kunye isisombululo kwaye demise a budlelwane. Ngoko ke, ingaba kuchitha ukudlala phandle kubhalwayo. Kuchitha kwi-budlelwane nabanye kusenokuba ngumsebenzi tricky uxhathiso mthetho. Oko wenziwe ngokuba kukho imfuneko ububi. Nangona kunjalo, akunakho kuchitha yi exabisekileyo ubuchule kuwo personal kwaye elinolwazi budlelwane nabanye. Sinako ukuba isoloko kulungile, kodwa ukuba sisoloko nika, kuchitha kungabangela resentment. Makhe umphandle i kubalulekile izakhono ngempumelelo comprise. Kuchitha ngu akusoloko kulula. Ngamanye amaxesha uphumelele kancinane, ngamanye amaxesha ufuna kuphulukana nayo kancinci. Kodwa ukuba bobabini kuni ingaba uzimisele idini kwi-budlelwane, chances ingaba uza ukufikelela a junction yakho kubudlelwane ukuba kubazisela yona a grinding yokuma. Ngoko ke, makhe sibone apho kufuneka kwaye shouldn khange abe ngokukhuthaza comprise kwi-budlelwane nabanye. Endala axiom ndonwabe umfazi, ninoyolo ubomi reflective a ezithile inyaniso. Yakho kubudlelwane kubaluleke kakhulu happier xa yakho ingaba iqabane lakho ndonwabe. Kodwa oko akuthethi banako ukufumana indlela yabo kuphela. Ekubeni yaviwa kwaye ndaqonda ngu kwalomgaqo-siseko ukuba unxibelelwano.

Ezinye iindawo ziyimfuneko ukufikelela isivumelwano kwi njengoko baya ifomu inxalenye everyday ubomi.

Lo icala kuchitha - xa kufuneka ahlangane ziphakathi

Ekubeni a ezinzima iqabane lakho, kuthetha ukuba kuza kufuneka tackle ezithile imiba enye indlela. Kwaye la ngamazwi iindawo apho negotiating akahlawuli ngaphandle. Kuva ngamnye enye ngaphandle, ukunxulumana kwaye yenza usharedi indlela. Imiba ukuba ifomu a qho njani uhlala ngaphandle ubomi benu kunye banokuthatha kancinci negotiation ukufikelela loo ndawo apho wena kunye bazive acknowledged kwaye yamkelwe. Kodwa sifakwe kwi-iinzame ukuba umnqamlezo omkhulu hlula ukufumana yakho kubudlelwane phakathi emhlabeni kwezi kwalomgaqo-siseko imiba. Ndonwabe uthando ilingana ndonwabe ubomi. Zonke kuchitha lusekelwe nika kwaye athabathe, kodwa kukho akasoze abe nika kwaye athabathe kwezinye fundamentals. A budlelwane akufunekanga infringe kwi ezithile ezingundoqo imibandela. Amalungelo akho kwaye ifuna kufuneka zange abe violated yi-umlingane wakho.

La ngamazwi kwiindawo apho kufuneka ingabi emva phantsi, kwaye kuchitha ingaba ngokwenene kuba yaba breaker.

Ke indlela yam okanye highway asiyiyo eyona accommodating attitude.

Nangona kunjalo, ukuba umlingane wakho ufuna ukuba kuchitha ngemiba kwalomgaqo-siseko ukuba eyakho uchazo kwaye amaxabiso, babe nje kuba ixesha ukuqala ehamba kude.

Musa kuchitha ukuba oko kuthetha ukuba lowering yakho imigangatho kuba ngaphantsi okufaneleyo. Kumalunga nokudala enobulungisa ukudlala mhlaba ukuba accommodate ezimbini abantu. Akuvumelekanga malunga conceding ukuya ezantsi esezantsi. I-imbono kufuneka bobabini umsebenzi ngakulo ngu ukufumana eyona kunye yakho worlds. Khumbula ukuba yakho indlela kuchitha kufuneka ekuqalekeni unxulumano kwaye akakwazi kufuneka ibe definitive. Tshintsha, ukukhula kunye adapt kunye. Funda izifundo zakho kwaye enze eyona kunye omele - wakho compromises kusenokuba njengoko flexible njengoko yakho attitude kufuneka. Sebenzisa yakho umntu ukomelela kwaye ubuthathaka, perceptions kwaye amaxabiso ukwandisa, kwaye ingabi isivumelwano ngamnye nezinye ke worlds. Kuchitha kwi-budlelwane nabanye unako pave ezindleleni ukuba contentment.