Mexican passion lokuqala umntu: friendship, uthando, kwaye umtshato

Akukho nokungabikho simplicity apha, idla kwi-Us

Enikwe stark loluntu neeyantlukwano phakathi ahlukeneyo eenkqubo le bonke kweli lizwe, ndiya zama hayi generalize kwaye nje ndithi okokuba ndinguye nomngeni kunye oku kuphelaNgoko ke, yintoni friendship, uthando, kwaye umtshato ukuze abantu beli lizwe? Jikelele consensus kukuba kulula ukwenza abahlobo kunye Mexicans kune kunye Europeans. Abaninzi bahlobo bam abo bangakholwayo Yurophu kuthelekiswa friendship kukho kwi-siege a i-fortress. Oku kuya kuthabatha ixesha elide: ngabantu suspicious kwaye reluctant ukwamkela bolunye uhlanga kwi zabo personal ubomi. Kubalulekile kananjalo kukunceda kakhulu ilinde inani iinkonzo, njengoko kwi-Royal inkundla. Baya lawula: iintlanganiso kunye abazali, inkqubo esisinyanzelo usapho dinners, sane usapho utyelelo. Yonke into jikelele ngu-mnandi kwaye ethambileyo, ngenxa zisetyenziswa ngale ndlela. Kwaye apha uza bazive ethambileyo ukukhetha i-Christmas umthi ukusuka ngezixhobo ezahlukeneyo izixhobo. Apha kwi-Mexico, kukho kunye eyodwa kwaye i-wawuphungula ka-unxibelelwano, ufuna ukufunda lokuqala izifundo ka-Spanish, kufuneka pronounce ngokwakho rhoqo kwaye hlobo. Kukho enye kuphela impendulo. Nangona yonke into uyaya ukususela ekutshoneni ukuba worse, kufuneka ulinde de umntu lizisa esezantsi ingxaki. kaloku, hug kwaye asazanga yakhe, ngoko uyakwazi ukuthetha na injongo malunga ngosuku ngalunye. Omnye imvelaphi yenkcubeko shock kisses xa ndizama ngaphandle.

Molo exclusively nge asazanga kwi cheek.

Kuquka yakho boss, nabo, kwaye iinzululwazi.

Ukuba ufuna anayithathela sele wazisa ukuba malunga ne- abantu ngexesha Mexican isidlo sasemini kunye nosapho lwakho, uqwalaselo. Akukho kwesizathu kuba oku. Eyona nto kukuba khumbula la iinkonzo, apho musa kuthetha nantoni na kuthi, ngenxa yokuba wonke Mexican kakhulu ebalulekileyo. Kwaye ukuba umntu ilibala ziphakathi kwe-umhla, baya khumbula. Kwaye uya thetha - kwaye abantu baya. Kwaye usapho Mexico kakhulu vala-knit. Xa sihamba ngaphandle ngomhla street, kufuneka ndithi goodbye nkqu abo esabelana kuwe akhange na exchanged ilizwi ubusuku bonke. Musa xana ukuba hug nabo kwaye baxelele ukuba. Ukuba ukucwangcisa i-ukuqeshwa kuba othile umhla kunye nexesha, ayithethi ukuba zithetha enye into. Akuvumelekanga eyokuba intlanganiso iya kuqhubeka. I-famous Latin i-american maniac, transferred kuxhomekeke iimeko, kunye namhlanje kwaye iveki elandelayo, mhlawumbi okanye mhlawumbi hayi, ngokugqibeleleyo characterizes Mexican society. Ngoko ke kwi-eva intlanganiso, ke kungcono ukuba buza kwakhona, masikhe sibone. Abantu Mexico ingaba sociable kwaye vula, kodwa hayi lucky. Kulungile, izithembiso zenzelwe ngokuzenzekelayo. Xa ndandisele studying Isitshayina, wena walumkisa kuthi hayi nika ambulances Isitshayina izithembiso.

Kwinqaku kukuba babe mamela: ebalulekileyo ubuchule ukuba uqeqeshe kwi-Mexico yi-science ka-ukuqonda athethe amazwi kunye subtext.

Idla intsingiselo ifihlakele kwi-numerous yeentyatyambo iipateni. Ngomhla wokuqala, esihle kakhulu imozulu, makungabikho namnye tear kwesixhanti sakhe, kodwa ke oko kungabangela iingxaki. I-Mexican mentality precludes directness njengoko enjalo, kwaye nkqu wembalela ukwaliwa kwesicelo kwi-impendulo ukuba isicelo Sakho iza kuba kwisiqendu ka-ishicilelwe okubhaliweyo.

Oku kubaluleke ngakumbi inyaniso kwi-abarhwebayo i-imeyile imiyalezo, ukongeza amaxesha amaninzi phambi-uqinisekiso phrases ingaba literally wongeza ekupheleni umbhalo, ngenxa yokuba lo attitude kanjalo emvelo everyday in life.

Kule minyaka iinyanga ezintathu, ndiya zithe yokufumana unxulumano ahluka-hlukeneyo abantu ecela malunga umntu othe ngaphambili zahlangana wam inombolo yefowuni waba esifunyenweyo. Ngoko ke mna anayithathela kutsha nje sele wamxelela ukuba ke ayisosine ngokwaneleyo ukuba ndithi, unako ukucela a ukuthandwa, nkosi. Bekuya kuba mnandi ukuba ubuya yima kokucofa amanani inani, ngenxa yokuba yenza kum uneasy. Ukuba ucela a Mexican njani lula kubalulekile ukuba ube nabahlobo kulo ilizwe lakho, waphendula"Ewe"ngaphandle hesitation. Kodwa emva ngexesha, uya ngokuqinisekileyo ukufumana phandle loluphi uhlobo unabo abahlobo. A ngenene vala kwaye reliable friendship ngu-thatha lokukhula. Okokuqala, kuya bonakala njenge oku kuwe, kwaye emva okomzuzwana oko uba (umhlobo, umhlobo) kuthetha ukuba sele ufikile kuqala inqanaba. Ngasentla, uyakwazi ukukhula ukuba yintoni sele kuchaziwe njengoko umhlobo.

Kwaye wena, nto leyo lohlobo, bamele kanjalo okulungileyo

Kwi-indoda friendship, owona inqanaba kukuba kuba umntakwabo.

Ezi zihlobo unako rhoqo ubalo kwi fingers omnye isandla, kodwa kuba ngabo, uhambo ukuba Mexico ingaba ngenene kukunceda kakhulu kuyo.

Real abahlobo apha kokuba enye into.

Usuku lokuqala ndandidibana a classmate, thina exchanged ifowuni amanani, kwaye ngeveki kamva lowo invited kum iqela kwi-suburbs of Mexico isixeko. Apho, ngokulandelelanayo, baba yakhe closest abahlobo. Apha sihamba kwakhona. Ummelwane wam ngu omnye umcimbi. Wandithabatha emva Institute a ezimbalwa umphinda-phinde ngo ngeveki, ngalo isicelo wam landlord. Thina nje wathetha kwaye ndawufumana okokuba waye kwi-ukhathalelo esikolweni. Ngoko ke, iinyanga ezimbalwa kamva, yandixelela malunga politics ka-Colombia kwaye bandinceda ukulungiselela wam exams. Kanye mna ezilahlekileyo izitshixo ukuba indlu ukuba ubuze ngexesha, kwaye mna ngokuba babuze ukuba ndinga ukuchitha ubusuku naye. Umhlobo wam waba foliso kwi-Institute, kodwa walumkisa nam malunga umama wam ke ingxaki. Ngoko ke sino omkhulu ngokuhlwa ubukele soap operas kwaye steak sangokuhlwa. Ndandisoyika ukuba umsesane i-bell uthi: endleleni, kwezinye ezithile xa ufika ndwendwela, kubalulekile ngalo ndlela ukuze bonwabele a glass amanzi. Akukho incopho kwi-ilinde abahlobo bakho ukuthatha kwabo bonke kwi refrigerator, nilungiselele kubo, kwaye ubeke nabo kwi plate.

Kwaye omkhulu umntu apha rhoqo kuthatha indawo kwi omkhulu isimbo, apho literally ithetha ishishini isimbo, kodwa eneneni ke eats oko kuya kwaziswa ngokwayo.

Umnini unako ukubonelela guests kunye a ezimbalwa enkulu bags ka kubo bonke ubomi bakhe, kwaye uza kuba ukuba zikhathalele kwento yonke ngokwakho. Mexicans njenge ukugcina imali. Oku umgangatho manifests ngokwayo kwi-eyakhe indlela, ingakumbi budlelwane nabanye.

Ukuba Mexican earns kakuhle, uya ilungele afunge kwi-wonke umlinganiselo (oko kukuthi wonke ezintathu rubles) kwiziko isiqhamo kwaye imifuno stall, thenga i-cheapest kwaye ephezulu-umgangatho izinto zonke unyaka macala onke, kodwa ukwikhefu uya ngokuqinisekileyo yiya amahlanu-inkwenkwezi hotel.

Oku kubaluleke ngakumbi worrying kuba ummelwane wam ukusuka e-Australia, abo phambi kokuba ndimke yayo yangaphakathi boyfriend khetha oku hotel. Ekuqaleni ingxelo, waze wathi ukuba kwakungekho kufuneka ahlawule kuba oko, ngenxa yokuba yena waziva iselwa elizimeleyo, kwaye wonke ukuhamba isicwangciso waba zihlolwe yi-uthotho scandals. Efanayo savings ingaba kubonisiwe bonke abahlobo bakhe abo zama ukubiza ekhaya, umtyholwa a anamashumi rubles (kangangoko ezintathu unit-format ka-gasoline), ngoko ke, asingabo ulingeka yokuchitha kakhulu kakhulu ipetroli amafutha. Omnye unusual mzuzu ka-Mexican inkcubeko: ukuba ngaba kwakukho invited kwindlela yakho umhla wokuzalwa, ngoko ke kufuneka ahlawule kuba yonke into ukuba ufuna ucwangco. Kodwa oku umthetho akuthethi ukuba isicelo encinane iintlanganiso. Umzekelo, xa ndiya kuba ikofu kunye abanye abahlobo bakho, mna bonwabele kuyo. Kodwa ngumsebenzi uthando Mexicans kwaye kuba girls Jikelele lonto yenza kubo otyebileyo, abo hlala apha kwi-osisigxina yokuhlala. Uninzi langaphandle girls ukuba ndiyazi emva kwenyanga ka-abahlala apha, sifuna ukuhlala kunye kulutsha kwi-Skype. Kwaye abaninzi babo ekhohlo ngamandla iminyaka engama-budlelwane nabanye ukuba ngesiquphe kuhlangana Mexicans. Zibuze ukuba kutheni.

Yimalini care kwaye ingqalelo girls imali kwi-Latin Emelika, baya phantse zange get naphi na.

Baya escorted kwethu ekhaya, soloko ubambe izandla, nkqu nokuba umntu usoloko wavula ucango kuba nabo. Kwi street uza kubona ezininzi couples ehamba isandla sakho kuzo isandla sakho kwaye kissing. Mexico ngxi adheres ukuya conservative imfundo ngokomthetho iphepha kwaye budlelwane nabanye phakathi abantu. Oku kuthetha ukuba yena rhoqo yenza izigqibo kwaye ibonisa ezininzi mna-ukukholosa. Ngoko ke, emva kokuya Mexico kuba ngexesha kwaye ke landing Aseyurophu, mna uqaphele ukuba Mexicans, kuthelekiswa Europeans, kuba nomdla tendency ukuba Patriarchy. Egameni lam lokuqala utyelelo, ndandidibana elahlukileyo icala lendawo wobomi. Mna listened kwi radio, apho loluntu ads ingaba constantly ukudlala, girls musa tolerate udushe ukusuka abantu, kwaye baya umnxeba i-toll ye-free inani okanye yiya amapolisa. I kubekho inkqubela ke, umyeni, abo bangakholwayo umququzeleli usapho ke indlu, wambetha yakhe kwaye akazange vumela yakhe ukusebenza.

Kanjalo, njengokuba mna wachaza, waba likhokelwa yokuba nguye umntu kwaye kuphela unako ukusebenza kwi-usapho.

Kwaye ukuba umsebenzi ayikho babefuna, kodwa imali ayikho ekhaya, oku akuthethi ukuba umfazi ovumelekileyo ukuba ushiye indlu. Kwi-Spanish, oku kubizwa ngokuba ngokwesini-calulo. Ngoko ke, ukuba umntu kwi-Mexico unxulumano kuye"macho", ngoko ke ukuba ilizwi sele elahlukileyo tone kunokuba sizenza idla ukuqonda.

Machismo nguye kanye kanye opposite ka yokuba umthetho-siseko ngesondo ukulingana kubancedisi kwi-Mexico: i stronger i-ngokwesini, i-stronger kubalulekile.

bangcono, i-ngcono. Omnye thabatha umba a budlelwane kukuba oko unako yokugqibela ixesha elide, kodwa ayithethi ukuba end emtshatweni. Ukuvavanya zabo oyikhethileyo, Mexicans zithe Dating kuba malunga ne-iminyaka elishumi kwaye ingaba ngakumbi sifuna ukuphila kunye emva umtshato. Kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba emva thorough khangela zabo elizayo marital ubudlelwane phakathi, baya hayi yeka wokuqhawula umtshato. Baya tshata Mexicans malunga amathathu eminyaka kamva. Mna kuba abahlobo abo aren khange watshata kanti kwaye musa yokucinga ngayo kwindawo yokuqala.

Abantwana besenza oku nkqu emva kweminyaka engamashumi amathathu, rhoqo kukufutshane, ngenxa yokuba ngokwabo kuba ubomi isicwangciso ukuba uchaza ukuba kutheni abo ukuchitha ezininzi ixesha labo careers kwaye accumulate savings ukuthenga kwezabo ekhaya.

Ukongeza, abantwana njengoko young njengoko iminyaka emithathu ubudala kufuneka yiya kindergarten, kwaye kwiziganeko eziliqela kuba oku kufuneka ahlawule kakhulu imali. Kukho free iigadi kuba omnye oomama, kodwa abazange zama ukunqanda kwezabo abazali. Uninzi Mexican izikolo kanjalo kuhlawulelwe izikolo, kukho kananjalo wonke amaziko, kodwa azinazo ngokwaneleyo i-enviable reputation, ngoko ke kuba eliphakathi-iklasi usapho ukuba bathethe malunga nabo, nkqu ukuba wena musa ukuthetha ngayo malunga nabo. Inkqubo yezemfundo kwi-Mexico ngu nangona sikwimeko yoqoqosho enzima ngokwaneleyo emva kindergarten okokuba exam kwaye okokuba lokuqala ibakala. Izifundo ezikolweni kwaye kindergartens begin kwanezinye ekuseni, kwaye oku regime uyaqhuba de admission ukuba zemfundo iziko. Ke ngoko, inkangeleko usapho apha imposes-hluke kakhulu, kakhulu enkulu izibophelelo. Wam stories malunga ntoni abazali kwindlela iindlela zomzobo esikolweni uyakwazi ukubhala utitshala ke iklasi ngenxa yokuba umntwana sele ufikelele yesithathu ibanga le-ziindleko enye injongo kuba uvuyo: kwi-Mexico, apho unako kuba akukho esikolweni marinara ngaso nasiphi na isizathu. Kwesinye isandla, i-habit ka-ingcamango ka-slowness ekwenzeni izigqibo ezibalulekileyo ebomini kukuba surprising. Kwesinye isandla, ngalinye inyathelo lesi-kungcono oluhleliweyo. Ukuba sifumanisa ukuba kusetyenziswa i-rhythm wobomi, kuya kuba lula ukuba uzive ethambileyo kwi-Mexico. Mexican ubomi angeliso ngobuninzi ka-amaqela kwaye ithuba ukuze bonwabele ubomi, nokuba ibe kwaye nangaliphi na ubudala, ajongise phandle ukuba abe kubaluleke kakhulu nabafana, kwaye friendship kunye abemi beli lizwe yindlela ende kwaye ngamandla.